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I’m Mary England, also known as Uncustomary, founder of Uncustomary.org and creator of the Merriment Making Movement. This podcast is your invitation to step out of autopilot and into a life that feels vibrant, authentic, and joyful. Whether you’re a caregiver, a creative spirit, or someone who’s ready to reconnect with themselves, you’ll find practical tools, inspiring stories, and unique ways to embody, create, and share joy every day. Through my signature Merriment Making technique, I’ll help you embrace your weird, celebrate your inner child, and rediscover what it means to truly live on purpose. Join me each week to explore the art of joy-making and start building a life that feels just as good as it looks—because you deserve to thrive, not just survive. 🌟 Let’s make merriment together.
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Wednesday Oct 16, 2024
Wednesday Oct 16, 2024
I have received the results from the biopsy on my tumor. It is not benign.
(FOR ALL THE INFORMATION PLEASE WATCH THE ENTIRE VIDEO. THE BELOW CAPTION IS AN EXTREMELY BRIEF SYNOPSIS.)
I have something called LAMN which stands for low grade mucinous neoplasm which can cause cancer.
Having a tumor on your appendix is very rare. Less than .01% of people have one. And from the tumors that are extracted, only .3% will be LAMN.
Ultimately there is very little to know about what this means until I get more procedures that can determine if anything has spread, where, how much, and what level.
These procedures are scheduled.
If I had not had my endometriosis surgery I would have not known about this tumor and it likely would have killed me. The opportunity to treat it is a miracle.
I am handling this so much better than I handled any negative news even two years ago. This is a testament to my own Merriment Making theories put into practice. Happiness habits matter.
I am, of course, worried. But I am mostly motivated. I have a lot I want to accomplish on this earth while I am here and if I just got a shorter sand timer, I need to move quickly.
What you can do for me? Celebrate me while I'm here. Do not wait till I'm gone to martyr me. Or anyone.
Enjoy my art and work NOW. Come to my parties. Read my books. Take my classes. Try my practices. Support my cause. Leave reviews. Share the positivity. Everything makes a difference. Let's get Merriment Making trending. Not because I have a tumor, but because it fucking matters.
I'll update you when I have more information after my colonoscopy.
Watch the video for the full update.
Go to my website for how to get involved. Uncustomary.org
I love you, you wonderful weirdos.
🆓🆓🆓 Positive Pulse - Uncustomary.org/Positive-Pulse
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*All information in this video is intended for General information purposes only. By watching this you agree that all your decisions based on and application of the information contained in this video is by your own personal choice. By watching this video you agree that you do not hold Uncustomary™ or Mary England directly or indirectly liable for any claim or third-party claim, death, injury, or personal/physical damage as a result of the use, interpretation, or application of the information contained in this video.
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You have to Feel good to Do good! 💛 I love you!
Monday Oct 28, 2024
Monday Oct 28, 2024
Since I last updated you on receiving a diagnosis of LAMN, I have been to many doctors and learned a lot of things.
❣️ The condensed version is: it might not be LAMN. It might be a type of appendix cancer.
Out of these two things, we WANT it to be LAMN because this would look like monitoring me for the rest of my life to make sure nothing comes back, whereas an appendix cancer would mean more surgeries and potentially traditional chemotherapy.
In this video, I go through:
💛 What I was incorrect on in my first video
💛 The main doctors/oncologists/specialists I have been to, what they told me, and how I felt after each appointment
💛 The pain I'm in/have experienced
💛 Updates on my endometriosis status/tips on treating yours once you're diagnosed
💛 The difference between being in pain and having a positive perspective
💛 My attitude towards living at this moment
Wednesday Oct 30, 2024
Wednesday Oct 30, 2024
In just 10 minutes, you can transform your mornings with a Merriment Morning routine! In this episode, I’ll guide you through four simple steps to start your day with more joy, energy, and resilience. Learn how gratitude, mindfulness, movement, and fun can set the tone for a stress-free day. Stay tuned for Part 2, where we’ll focus on creating the perfect nighttime routine to complement your mornings!
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*All information in this video is intended for General information purposes only. By watching this you agree that all your decisions based on and application of the information contained in this video is by your own personal choice. By watching this video you agree that you do not hold Uncustomary™ or Mary England directly or indirectly liable for any claim or third-party claim, death, injury, or personal/physical damage as a result of the use, interpretation, or application of the information contained in this video.
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You have to Feel good to Do good! 💛
Tuesday Nov 05, 2024
Tuesday Nov 05, 2024
Learn my 4 step method for a soothing Merriment Evening routine that only takes 10-15 minutes!
Soothe your nervous system, get a restful night's sleep, and set yourself up for a successful + happy day!
Maybe the reason you're not a morning person is because you don't have a night routine!
Plus - the real reason you don't want to give up screens before bedtime.
🆓🆓🆓 Positive Pulse - Uncustomary.org/Positive-Pulse
Uncustomary Copyright 2024
*All information in this video is intended for General information purposes only. By watching this you agree that all your decisions based on and application of the information contained in this video is by your own personal choice. By watching this video you agree that you do not hold Uncustomary™ or Mary England directly or indirectly liable for any claim or third-party claim, death, injury, or personal/physical damage as a result of the use, interpretation, or application of the information contained in this video.
🫶 Join The FEEL GOOD TROOP:
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You have to Feel good to Do good! 💛
Wednesday Nov 06, 2024
Wednesday Nov 06, 2024
This isn't a call to action, your whole life is.
Don't waste time wallowing on the couch and posting pointless negative or fear-mongering memes.
It's time to be a Merriment Maker. To leave your house and BE the thing you're scared to stop happening.
If you're scared to see a record store go out of business, shop at it. If you're scared to see kindness leave the world, go be a kind person.
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Uncustomary Copyright 2024
*All information in this video is intended for General information purposes only. By watching this you agree that all your decisions based on and application of the information contained in this video is by your own personal choice. By watching this video you agree that you do not hold Uncustomary™ or Mary England directly or indirectly liable for any claim or third-party claim, death, injury, or personal/physical damage as a result of the use, interpretation, or application of the information contained in this video.
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Tuesday Nov 12, 2024
Tuesday Nov 12, 2024
In this episode, we’re talking about the "permission slips" we often give ourselves and each other—those little reminders like “It’s okay to be yourself” or “You’re allowed to be weird.” While they seem supportive, these statements can keep us stuck in old habits of self-doubt, as if our authenticity needs validation. Today, we’re moving beyond that! I’ll explore how these repeated “permissions” might actually reinforce the idea that we need external approval to embrace who we truly are.
Tune in to learn how to throw away the “permission slip” (tip: no more disclaimers!) and step into the freedom that’s already yours.
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*All information in this video is intended for General information purposes only. By watching this you agree that all your decisions based on and application of the information contained in this video is by your own personal choice. By watching this video you agree that you do not hold Uncustomary™ or Mary England directly or indirectly liable for any claim or third-party claim, death, injury, or personal/physical damage as a result of the use, interpretation, or application of the information contained in this video.
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Thursday Nov 21, 2024
Thursday Nov 21, 2024
Are you running on autopilot, just getting through the day without truly living it?
In this first episode of the mini series Joyful Grounding: The Caregiver’s Path to Self-Love and Inner Peace, I'm talking about how caregivers and support-givers like you can gently step out of the hustle of survival mode and reconnect with the small, meaningful moments that bring joy to your life.
Discover why autopilot can feel necessary but ultimately leaves you feeling disconnected, and learn simple, actionable ways to break the cycle—without adding more to your plate. This episode includes a personal story, a quick “Pause and Breathe” technique, and a joyful ritual to help you savor the beauty around you, even on the busiest days.
You deserve to experience joy, even while caring for others. Let’s take the first step together.
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Uncustomary Copyright 2024
*All information in this video is intended for General information purposes only. By watching this you agree that all your decisions based on and application of the information contained in this video is by your own personal choice. By watching this video you agree that you do not hold Uncustomary™ or Mary England directly or indirectly liable for any claim or third-party claim, death, injury, or personal/physical damage as a result of the use, interpretation, or application of the information contained in this video.
🫶 Join The FEEL GOOD TROOP:
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📱Get GOOD NEWS TEXTS:
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💌 Get HAPPY MAIL:
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Tuesday Nov 26, 2024
Tuesday Nov 26, 2024
Let's get into the disconnect between the love they give to others and the love they offer themselves. Through compassionate insights and practical advice, let's redefine self-love as an essential practice, not a selfish act, and unpack the societal myths that keep us stuck in cycles of guilt and over-giving.
Discover how cultural conditioning, guilt, and misunderstandings about self-care create barriers to self-love—and learn how to flip the script by treating self-love as the fuel that empowers you to thrive.
🆓🆓🆓 Positive Pulse - Uncustomary.org/Positive-Pulse
Uncustomary Copyright 2024
*All information in this video is intended for General information purposes only. By watching this you agree that all your decisions based on and application of the information contained in this video is by your own personal choice. By watching this video you agree that you do not hold Uncustomary™ or Mary England directly or indirectly liable for any claim or third-party claim, death, injury, or personal/physical damage as a result of the use, interpretation, or application of the information contained in this video.
🫶 Join The FEEL GOOD TROOP:
https://uncustomary.org/feel-good-troop/
🌈 Join The MERRIMENT MAKERS:
https://uncustomary.org/merriment-makers/
📱Get GOOD NEWS TEXTS:
https://uncustomary.org/merriment-texts/
💌 Get HAPPY MAIL:
https://uncustomary.org/merriment-mail-newsletter/
🎴 MERRIMENT MISSIONS DECK:
https://uncustomary.org/merriment-missions-deck/
🎬 Subscribe and never miss and episode:
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🛍️ More private coaching, courses, and live programs HERE: https://uncustomary.org
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You have to Feel good to Do good! 💛
Thursday Dec 05, 2024
Thursday Dec 05, 2024
That pesky voice in your head telling you you’re not good enough? That’s your inner critic—and you don’t have to believe everything it says. In this episode, we’re diving deep into The Inner Critic Trap, exploring how to recognize when this voice shows up, understand its roots, and—most importantly—soothe it with compassion.
Transform negative self-talk into a supportive inner dialogue. You’ll learn grounding exercises, practical affirmations, and visualization techniques to hush the inner critic and embrace your inner cheerleader.
🎉 Plus, exciting news! The Feel Good Troop membership is your go-to resource for taming your inner critic and so much more. With over 50 masterclasses—including one specifically on this topic—live coaching, and worksheets, it’s a treasure trove of support. For December, new members will receive a special bonus depending on when they join.
https://Uncustomary.org/Feel-Good-Troop
https://Uncustomary.org/Merriment-Makers
Listen now and take the first step toward silencing that inner critic and celebrating yourself as you are!
Wednesday Dec 11, 2024
Wednesday Dec 11, 2024
In this episode of The Merriment Making Podcast, we tackle a belief many of us hold: that feeling good is selfish, especially when others are struggling. 🌈 Permission to Feel Good: Embracing Your Right to Happiness explores why your joy isn’t just valid—it’s vital. ✨
Mary dives into the science behind why we often deny ourselves happiness 🧠 and addresses common barriers like guilt 😔, fear of judgment 😟, and the internalized productivity culture that ties our worth to achievement 🏆. With actionable tips 💡, relatable examples 🪞, and a soothing visualization exercise 🧘♀️, this episode will help you reconnect to your right to feel good and spread joy to others. 💖
Plus, Mary shares an exciting announcement 🎉: it’s the last week for discounted memberships in the Feel Good Troop and The Merriment Makers 🌟, with a bonus 20-minute private coaching session included 🗣️. Don’t miss this opportunity to recharge and step into your full potential. 🌟
Tune in for a transformative conversation that will leave you glowing with happiness 🌟 and empowered to share your light with the world! 🌞